The typical first date is usually dinner and a movie, so you can’t go wrong with that. If you’re looking to get to know each other better, try finding what you have in common, like skiing, and make a day of it. If you are finding that your likes and dislikes are different, you can each plan to do an activity that you like and expose it to each other. You may find something you really enjoy doing that you didn’t think you would. On the other hand, you may find that there’s not much there. If that’s the case, part as friends and keep yourself open to the ‘other fish in the sea’.