A major factor in looking handsome, is being handsome. For one, remember’,beauty is in the eye of the beholder’. What exactly do you think would change in your life if you were ‘handsome?’ Secondly, how do you know that you are not already ‘handsome?’ Don’t listen to the opinions of other negative folks, and stop over analyzing yourself whenever you look in the mirror. You will always perceive yourself differently then the way others see you. Do things that will make you feel better about who you are and it will show in the way that you look and carry yourself.