There are many different ways to conduct a seance. The most common way is when three people form a circle by holding hands. In the middle of the circle are usually 3 lit candles and some food for offering. One person would be the main spokes person so to speak. Make sure the lights are off and it quiet and very dim. The one person would then call upon a particular person or the spirits in general to try and make contact. It is important that whomever is within the circle be very open minded and come into the seance with no fear. to break the seance, simply free each others hands.